A lot of people on here seem to either be pre-first-time noobs or seasoned pros. I put myself firmly in the former category but just had a breakthrough.

Wife is out on the town (NYC so lots of potential) and I just sent her a text suggesting that if after dinner she doesn’t hear from her friends she should go to a fancy hotel bar, get a drink and try get chatted up. She said she would try it.

I couldn’t be more excited- Just a total rush that it’s likely gonna become a bit more real. We’ve talked a lot about the possibility of an mfm and how hot it’d be but this is the first chance we’ve had to make a little bit of progress towards that. Even though nothing is likely to happen, she has it in her head that there’s a green light and that in itself is hot af Anyway, nothing major for all you pros but for those on the edge of things… it feels great to have a bit of a breakthrough!