I (27m) and my wife (26f) are new to everything and have done a full/soft swap a couple of times along with same room. She has a friend she’s known a long time coming to town next week and she’s wanting to fuck him, which I think would be hot. Especially since she’s okay with taking pictures and recording it (she’s even being given a Zelda outfit to dress up in for the pictures and videos, which we will also use when she gets home).

The thing I’m struggling with is the whole basic and dumb view of “what if he’s better or she likes him more”. I think the whole idea is hot and everything we’ve done so far was hot and enjoyable. Just struggling with that for some reason. She’s even reassured me that in the end she’s coming home to me and married to me and will always prefer me and that it’s just a fun thing that we could do from time to time (me with women alone as well). She just finds it hot and thinks it’d add even more to our sex life as well (which I agree).

I just don’t know how to get out of my head. Hopefully I explained everything correctly.