Long story short, my wife and I have talked over the years about how hot it would be to involve another male in the bedroom. We’ve thought about going to a club and just seeing how it is (we like the thought of having sex around others as well) but tbqh I don’t think we’re quite yet fully ‘into it’ enough to do a full or even soft swap BUT what my wife would definitely do would be letting an attractive, nice guy eat her pussy while I watch/get involved. It’s not that she’s ruled out full sex but that’s where she/we would love to start. So kinda soft to start.

Her first question was ‘how would we even go about finding someone?’ And I (obviously turned on by the concept) think it may be an idea for me to try find this person for us. Online seems not our style but our IRL opportunities to meet suitable guys are pretty limited (we’re busy parents with not much social life). Is the gym a good place? What other places/ situations could I put myself in to effectively chat up a guy on her/our behalf?

We’ve talked about us going to a bar together but separate and seeing if she can attract people but I’d also like to give it a good go in the search and wondering if there are any places others have found a 3rd that isn’t in the ‘bull’ vein (that seems the realm of online and sex clubs), just someone who would be open to a new experience

I’m pretty confident when it comes to approaching people and have a good idea on how I’d engineer the conversation so it’s really just a question of where to meet people. Any tips?