I’m in a real pickle here. Apart from threesomes with couples I don’t sleep with taken men. Last time I did I was 22 and I’m 39 now so it’s been a long time. I felt really guilty afterwards, not during obviously, so promised myself I wouldn’t do it again.

Wellllll, I’ve met a guy at the gym, he knows I’m married but doesn’t know the situation. He’s told me he’s married but basically gave the lines “it’s dead in the water, we haven’t had sex for years blah blah blah” and I thought “I’m not falling for that”.

Anyway over the last few weeks we’ve been talking more and more and although personality wise he’s not my type, overconfident, he is a funny guy and also really handsome. He’s started texting me a lot and I have to stop myself replying sometimes

On Saturday we had a night out with everyone from the gym. We weee flirting all night and then he tried to kiss me. I had to ring my husband to come get me because I knew I was starting to give in.

I haven’t seen him since and I’m even thinking of changing gyms again this point!