First, I like to say, I hate the word bull if you come at me in a DM with the word bull, I will not talk to you. My wife and I treat each man as a real person with real feelings. To us, you are not not just a cock that we borrow for the evening.

My wife and I have had one MFM where I vetted a few single guys. And I have just recently picked another single guy for our second MFM. The ones that are pushy will not get a reply from me. Their replies to me must constantly be respectful to me, and to my wife, especially my wife. We all know what we are here for and that is sex, fantasies, and kinks etc. There is never any reason to get disgusting when making comments about the wife. We know what single guys would like to do in the bedroom, and we know what we are all here for, but there is a classy way of saying it, and a disgusting way of saying it. In fact, if you go straight to the topic of sex or any sex act, I will usually not talk to you. Because first, we are people. All people should be respected. The sex act itself is SECONDARY to getting to know us as people. That is the main thing that single guys should know. Once a single guy has established to me that he is respectful to both of us, then and only then will I start slowly introducing some talk about what sexual fantasies we are into or that we are wanting. Single guys, when you FIRST text/email/chat to the husband/SO only say to the husband/SO what you would say to the husband in a crowded room while standing in church. You should be that respectful!! P. S. Another rule I have is not to pick really young single guys. All the single guys I pick are going to be 30ish years old or older. Because those gentleman know about respect. That does not mean there aren’t some young guys who are respectful, because there certainly are. That’s just my preference. This is the way.