So I’ve floated the idea about me watching her with another man for past couple of months. She has always shrugged it off saying no. She’s an introvert and I totally respect her decision because making her feel forced into something like this was the last thing I want to do. I made it clear to her that more than it being my fantasy, it’s the fact that I can get off of on her getting pleasure. It’s as simple as that. And in return I obviously don’t expect her to reciprocate or whatever. She enjoying and feeling good and getting pleasured is good enough of a “reward”. I’m happy to just watch, and if she wants me to join, I’d do that.

Anyway, fast forward, just sometime back while I was talking to her, she told me the main reason she never wanted to do that was because she’s scared of catching feelings for another person (she’s super emotional, she’s a Pisces. Go figure). And frankly, that’s understandable, everyone’s different. While it may not be the case for me, it’s the case for her and I respect that.

She said if I can find ways of solving that challenge, a potential “solution to the problem” if you will, then that’s something she could strongly consider for sure.

One of the ways I could think of is: I do the complete vetting part, I could show her the pictures of the guy (hide his face as she mentions that she’d prefer not seeing it because could factor into her catching feelings), and set up the meet with me being present, blindfold her and have the deed happen. And he’d just leave and then I take off her blindfold and reclaim her, etc. so basically she purely looks at pictures and see if the body type matches her preference and decides whether to proceed or not.

Can you guys please give me alternative solutions to this? How did you ensure you’d never catch feelings? I am open to all suggestions. No matter how dumb or stupid it sounds.

(I sincerely apologize in advance if this is the wrong way to look at things. And I’m sorry if this I a wrong thread. I’d appreciate you pointing me in the right direction. You may also DM me. I’d love to find a mentor for this).