Hi there, Newish to this lifestyle. Husband and I have been participating since November. Probably 15 different guys.

(PS my marriage has never been stronger)

I’m overweight, have not great skin, but have a nice face and I’m fun. I am extremely honest with guys about this prior to meeting and send them pretty explicit photos to ensure they know that I’m not the typical “hot” girl.

I’ve had a couple hookups that seemed great, but the guy will no longer respond to me. We talked after hooking up and talked about playing again, but then they vanish. I try not to take this personally. I try to tell myself that it’s not me physically that turned them away.

Is it normal for hookups to ghost a few weeks after? How do you deal with this? Should I even care 😂