Our progression has been very slow but enjoyable.

We started off sharing stories about her sexual past and prior lovers, which we still do today and have a lot of fun with.

We then moved towards fantasising about another man fucking her while she sucked me, being picked up in a bar, going to a sex club and other kinks. Again, this has been great fun but there has been no real discussion about turning this into reality yet.

Throughout it all my wife has been a bit reluctant when about talking about penis size. I’m average or slightly below average, and have no hang ups about the size of my dick. That said, I’d love to see her filled with a large cock.

Some interesting things have happened recently:

• when I asked her if she’d been with a big cock, she said “nothing exceptional, except my first time which was enormous and a bit traumatic because of its size.”

• one hotpast story she was recounting she said words along the lines of “I knew he was going to fuck me well, he had a hot body and a big dick.”

We just bought an 8 inch dildo and tried it out last night for the first time. I slid it inside her while going down on her. It went in almost all the way with no problem at all. I then fucked her with it while she touched her clit. The noises she made (and her post orgasm feedback) told me she enjoyed it A LOT.

I get the sense she really enjoys a big penis inside of her, but has the (misplaced) idea that it’s threatening to me.

I think this is something we can overcome and enjoy a lot as we move through our hotwife progression.