Hello all, so we been in the life style for about 4 years, usually we find a guy or a mfm, and at times they play solo witch is fine, we've also had it where it wasn't group play but the other male would hang out with us as a group, seems lately all we been finding is guys that are to scared or uncomfortable to meet me ( the husband ) even for just drinks or games ect nothing sexual at all, they always say it's werid or awkward or don't make sense and at times don't believe I'm 100 percent fine with it, even though the wife reassures them I am and it's ok ect, they still have no problem talking to her and trying or meeting up with her, they have no problem coming to the house to pick her up or drop her off after she's been at the bar, ( not many ubers here ).. the guys that have hung out with us or done a mfm I never had a problem with and trusted them, the few that refuse to even meet me I just have no respect, to me it just don't make sense that you have no problem talking to my wife, hanging out with her and fucking while knowing she's married and in a open relationship but are to uncomfortable or scared to meet me, I have no problem her playing alone but with the ones that won't even meet me especially after a few meet ups I'm getting to the point of not wanting her to play with them and have no respect for them, I don't wanna deny my wife her fun with the people she likes and enjoys it with but we're also not in a big city so it makes it even harder to find people.. just curious how you all would handle it or do if it was you.