Talked to my wife Wednesday night, she was still on board, excited but nervous but very much still into it. She was basically all set to go to his place tonight she was mostly just trying to work out a schedule because we had a few things to do after work tonight. she wanted to go to a family event and then after I’d take the kids home and she would go to his place and what was to happen would happen.

Then she had a family emergency at midnight and 100% it’s on hold, totally support that not even a question or something she had to say, I knew it once we got the call. not upset about it but I think it will be at least a couple weeks until she is even able to consider it again.

so i’m not going to bring it up or anything until then. I 100% support that, but selfishly i do worry that the excitement may die over that time. I don’t think it’s gone for good but i’m expecting a lull.