So over the last few days I’ve had a few chats with my wife about this fantasy. Her initial response was that she thought it was weird but I’ve tried to explain why these fantasy appeals to me and that it’s actually quite a common fantasy. Judging by her responses I don’t think it’s anything she’s ever really thought about but so far that hasn’t been a hard no to potentially exploring it more in the future. I’m hoping that the seed is sown and once she’s had time to think more about it she may be more open to discussing it further.

One blocker that I can foresee is the fact that we’ve only been with each other as have been together since high school. I’d love to hear from other couples who were in a similar situation and how you navigated the conversations around having sex with someone else? And more importantly, how were things afterwards? In my head, my wife having sex with someone else would essentially be no different than her using a dildo if the experience was purely based on sex and her pleasure. But I appreciate that might be a slightly simplistic view and there are certainly more emotions involved.