Hey all… So my wife and I really want to open the door into the HotWife lifestyle. My wife doesn’t like labels or putting anything on it, but we are more of a stag/vixen border line cuckhold couple. The kink started off as mine a few years ago, and through many conversations, and role play we are ready to introduce a guy into our marriage. So we began searching, at first it was very exciting and such a turn on having her talking and sexting with other guys but overtime and not successfully meeting the right guy some of the excitement has gone away. My wife and I have standards on who we would like, we believe them to be realistic but finding such seems to be quite the task. We have dealt with flakes, and pic collectors. We are upfront on what we are interested in. I guess what I am asking is, how do more experience couples find matches? We’ve tired local threads on Reddit, feeld, AM, 3way. Are there any other outlets to potentially find a guy? We are local to Long Island. We’d appreciate the advice ..