I really need some platonic friends who are in the LS too. I never dated before marrying my husband, and we've been together 30 years. I am shy at first but you'd know you'd enjoy yourself with me when I'm relaxed with you. I really need advice and someone to vent to.

I've been fucking this guy I really like but I've gotten him off several times (each time) but he's only gone down on me and made me cum ONCE. So I left his place yesterday and I've been hurt and upset since.

There's only 2 things I'm looking for: to be fucked by a friendly man who wants fwb, and fantasy fulfillment. I've been stood up, ghosted, used, and I'm left wondering wtf is wrong with me that I'm so fucking unwantable.

I'm not ugly. I'm a size 8 now. I have guys talking to me all the time, I can't keep them straight; literally need a spreadsheet. But it has to be worth it for me too. I don't have time to waste on guys who never plan to actually meet.

Im going to have guys message me after I post this, guaranteed. They always say I don't deserve that, they're different, but guess how many haven't ghosted me from the last time I posted??? Maybe one.

Please, ladies, tell me do you meet f2f first? Do you chat for days and give pics? Please enlighten me bc this isn't working and I feel like monkey shit. I need to know how to make sure I get mine without making them just go away. I feel like, if I tell this guy that I am upset he'll think this is work, or not fun, etc and stop seeing me. TIA