My wife said she would ask any potential man to wear protection as she is not on birth control and also to help prevent any STI. And if they were to refuse then she would not sleep with them. Asides people met at bars or through apps she has made it clear that she would love to fuck an old friend of mine as she always had a thing for him. He is hung and a few friends of hers in the past said he was really good in bed. She then went on to say that if he said no to wearing a condom that she thinks she would still fuck him as she feels he could make her do anything and thinks chemistry would be too strong when in the moment. I know now through many conversations how much she wants to fuck him but think by fucking him and even without protection could potentially develop more feelings towards him and take away from our relationship