I know it have seen a older posts about this topic. I honestly can’t remember the advice that was given.

My wife and I started exploring hotpast and now it’s started leaning towards Hotwifing. I have 0 desire to play with other women and love the thought of her being fulfilled. She asked a question last night I couldn’t answer. She’s really excited about the flirting part and getting to know the 3rd.

But she asked how could you sleep with someone and not catch feelings? She says she would need real connection and she’s afraid she would catch feelings. I have seen on here that couples will only play with a 3rd a few times to help elevate the risk of feelings. She also brought up that what if the sex is mind blowing? How would you not want to go back?

I love that her and I are starting to be able to communicate at this level and have the deeper conversations. I thought I would add she is loving going out and in public and picking out guys that she would sleep with. It’s pretty hot!