We have been doing this lifestyle for about 15 months and it’s been a epic adventure for sure. We have had 3 bulls in that time. My wife’s ex Fuck buddy(first story), a guy I met on Twitter and a guy from Reddit. Those all happened in the space of the first year. We have figured out our dynamics, vetting process and what we both like and enjoy.

Her ex was the first. He came in town and fucked her one time. I didn’t watch in person because the wife was nervous about me watching and I wanted her to be as comfortable as possible to ensure she had a enjoyable time. Got 2 amazing videos and he left and always wants to come back in town for another time. The wife isn’t too keen on fucking him again because the sex wasn’t as good as she remembered.

The guy we met for twitter lived in Atlanta so she met him half way and got a hotel. This was her first solo date and they got lunch and went the the room. They fucked for about 3 1/2 hours and made so many videos for me. They talked for months but could never make the schedules work. In that time they both express feelings which in our dynamic is allowed. Finally they met again this January and it was good but she enjoyed the first time much better. She ended the fling shortly after due to the distance and time in between meets. Made things to hard and took to much time from other things with not enough benefit

The guy we met on twitter was our first local bull experience and it was amazing! They met up for lunch and a beach date the first time around. He came over the house and drank and smoked with the wife. Then they fucked with me watching for the first time and the rush of emotions I experienced was like nothing before. They had so much chemistry in that moment it was great. Him being the first local bull allowed for ALOT of play. Almost too much and we both begin to get burnt out from the amount. He couldn’t host so there was no variety for us in it. It was always him coming over smoking and fucking. We both like to be able to switch things up but that wasn’t the reason we ended it.

As a rule we ask all our bulls to be exclusive to us while we are active. If that means only one session or 3 months of fucking no love lost but we enjoy being safe with that rule. He attempted to break this rule with friends of ours even after asking our permission which we did not give. So that ended that.

So after that ended in OcT we have been on the search for someone to fit the things we ask. And after a long few months last night it finally happened!!!! I had a guy reach out and really hit it off with me a few months ago. Conversation were dope and he was very patient and willing. He was also persistent in his pursuit of the wife. He wasn’t in the lifestyle before so it would be new for him which is okay with us if you check all the other boxes. He got tested before we asked and made conversations easy. After a few weeks of me and him talking, the wife reached out and they hit it off really well. She went to his job yesterday and the tension was real! She came home and told me every detail and I knew it was a matter of time! She went over last night and the videos were amazing!!! Solo missions for the local were nice, so now it’s just a matter of seeing if he can handle me watching and joining in but so far this is the most hopeful I have been in a long time about a bull and a dynamic that fits us!!!

Any questions ask away!