This is really a question for the bulls/thirds that frequent this sub. Been curious about your thoughts/approach with first time couples.

Do you prefer younger couples earlier in their relationships knowing that you are helping them embark down a path that will possibly be part of their relationship for years (or even decades) to come.

Or do you prefer older couples who have more well established relationships where this is a more dramatic shift in the nature of their relationship and you might be introducing them to things they never imagined they'd do.

Or maybe you have no preference and just want to be able to help any couple that seeks you out however you can. Or maybe somewhere in-between.

Also, do you have different approaches to your first encounters with couples depending on where they stand in their own relationships? How much are you trying to tailor the experience to the specific couple?

What are some of the best aspects of being a couple's first bull/third? What are some of the drawbacks?

EDIT: Do you feel any extra responsibility if you know you are a couple's first experience outside their marriage?