I posted a version of this question on another sub but I thought this might be an interesting place to ask the question as well. Are there any hotwife couples who previously didn't know anything about the lifestyle or were only vaguely aware that other people engaged in these types of sexual activities who subsequently met a bull/third (or even another couple) who is in the lifestyle who explained it to them, perhaps got them curious, and then subsequently helped them take the leap and open their marriage? It seems, understandably, that couples usually decide this is something they want to do and then proactively seek it out but I was wondering if the flow of events ever works in the opposite direction and through a matter of circumstance gets introduced to it. Basically I'm wondering if anyone "fell into" the lifestyle moreso that sought it out. If you have experienced this or something similar, it would be great to hear the story. Thanks in advance.