Recently jumped into this lifestyle with the encouragement of my husband. Learning a lot of new things. Learning to deal with emotions, anxiety, feelings of cheating etc etc. I am sure most wives understand the feeling. Our bull doesn’t know about hubby’s involvement in the lifestyle. Part of me wants to tell the guy, he also happens to be my husband coworker and of-course the cheating taboo is fueling the desire and passion for him. Should i tell him or should i not? Hubby says to just go with the flow and no need to tell the bull about his involvement. Hubby has been very very understanding and helpful in taking the kids away and giving me and the third much needed alone time. Also due to the dynamic, the third/bull has been very dominant, we have done and said somethings that I can’t share with hubby. I guess i am just learning. Thanks all