My (47) wife (36) and I have been venturing down the fantasy side of Hotwifing for a good couple of years now. She is really embracing the idea as a fantasy (texts, pics and very hot bedroom talk) and quite inventive in describing how she would love to experience a MFM threesome or even a GangBang. But that's where it ends, the idea of actually playing with someone else always gets her super anxious and, even though she has no ethical objects to the idea, she says she's just too shy to make it reality.

I really have been trying to take things up a notch in the roleplay by introducing the physical aspect of a dildo as the second cock. But she keeps telling me my cock is perfect for her and she hates the artificial feel of dildos and vibes. To counter that I got a set of the top-of-line Vix-Skin Dildos: Spur (5"), Mustang (6.5") and Maverick (7.5"x 6" circ). She did try the tiny Spur but could not get into it and wouldn't even consider the others (even though the Mustang is about my size).

As a bit of background, she a very beautiful woman (and I absolutely adore her), but I was the first guy she ever had full intimacy with and her other experience is very limited. That said, we have an absolutely wonderful trusting and loving relationship and even after a decade still make love at least 2-3 times a week - and really she gets off from it, in a wonderful and enthusiastic way.

However she is burdened with a huge 'ick' factor reaction to many many things (even when that she never even tried it), so 10 years into our marriage we STILL have not done anal and the toys have been limited to a wand vibe and very light BDSM (cuffs, and very soft whips). She even hates fingering, so even though I'm very experienced (made my fair share of ladies squirt) and gentle, anything in her pussy (aside from my lonely cock) is no-go. She knows she is very vanilla (and admits it) but is still a good sport and really does try to open herself to new ideas (until they hit her very low comfort bar) and I always try show that I appreciate every effort.

I am really hoping that the Hotwife fantasy becomes a reality for her. It's a massive turn-on for both of us, but I am also wanting her to experience other men to broaden her horizons and inject some much-needed extra flavor into our love life. We have a huge disparity in our body counts - she is still sitting on 1 while I had already hit triple digits well before we met - I would definitely like to even-up that lop-sided score

For her it would be a step too far to jump straight from the Hotwife fantasy on to a real cock (even someone super safe, like a professional gigolo that I suggested), and considering dildo-play is usually considered crucial in progressing roleplay a lot further it is very frustrating for me to be stuck at this roadblock.

Any ideas, suggestions or similar experiences would hugely appreciated.