Hey all, back on reddit for the first time in awhile.

I'm a single male and have been in and out of the LS for around 6 years. I've been with a number of wives in that time, from one and done to long term, and in between.

There's a wife I used to play with a lot but we've evolved into close friends who don't actually fuck but certainly do more than vanilla friends, such as make out, casually stroke each other above clothing, groping. Much of it in the midst of non-sexual conversation and to be honest this kind of buildup is almost as good as actually fucking. And we have an awesome friendship to boot, and hubby is great too. Anyone else have an in-between vanilla and non-vanilla relationship like this?