Wife and I have been exploring the lifestyle on and off for about 3 years. Mostly fantasy and dirty talk, but have also done some virtual play. Last night things dialed up. We were playing with a femdom dynamic. To my surprise she did an excellent job with the dom role (she’s normally very shy). She had me lay next to her, sitting on my hands and I wasn’t allowed to touch myself and made me watch as she got off with a toy. It was one of the hottest things we have ever done. She kept smiling then getting off. I could tell she was enjoying the power dynamic and that she was getting off thinking about fucking someone else while I watched (earlier in the night we had joked about her thinking about a guy we know’s cock). When she let me cum it was one of the most powerful orgasms I ever had. Not sure if this is a step in the right direction, but seemed like things were dialed up. Would love to hear to hear others thoughts on if this is progress or just talk about similar experiences. Thanks for letting me share!