Male half of this vanilla hotpast/hotwife inquiring account. My fiance did a first post last night and got some thoughtful responses. I rather enjoyed the thought of her posting and knew she'd get dms from boys which I also didn't mind a bit.

Here's the rub. While it's kinda hot to see her interact with guys for the first time on reddit, here's my main observation. Everyone who messaged her started out in a helpful way. However a few quickly wander off the helpful path into creepy sex and smut talk. Sending unsolicited videos etc. If your goal is to connect with this woman whose fiance is enthralled with the hotwife thing and she does a post that opens the door to talking to her, is it smart to get right into sending hard core porn vids. Or telling graphic sex stories, most of which sound fake? If you're given a gift, know your audience and at least make a smarter attempt to connect. Do better. Her post is still up if there's any smarter boys out there. She was open to hotwife discussion and related matter. And she's HOT.