So as the heading say, my husband recently confessed about this lifestyle . We had hit a dry and rough patch in our bedroom life for the past couple of years. We are both highschool sweethearts. I have been left confused, anxious , doubtful but also find myself thinking about this quite more often ever since he mentioned it a few months ago. I Ofcourse have a lot of doubts. What if he decides to see other women which i will not be okay with at all. And obviously some other issues. He asked me to make a reddit account and joined this subreddit. He doesn’t know i am here and i have made him delete reddit from his phone. I would like to connect with other women in this lifestyle to understand this more. I envision i maybe need a mentor who can answer all my questions. Feel free to reach out. Mid 30, 2 young kids at home.