Hello this is a topic that I feel like I’ve been wanting to address for a bit but finally feel more comfortable discussing.

There’s certainly a main huge sub kink devoted to this aspect of hotwifing and given a post about content creators I do realize that seemingly the majority of the content seems to focus on this one element of the LS.

In full transparency my FWB is half black. It was not something necessarily intentional when we started this quest but I have found that both my husband and I do find skin contrast sexy. It’s far from a primary criteria we are looking for but sure skin color played a role in our initial attraction to my FWB.

That said, in chats with some others in this LS community, I’m often asked “have you had big black you know what” and when I explain the situation often people want to label me a certain way and it hurts me to think they view my FWB potentially in a certain light.

At the end of the day, I guess my point is, I know some people do want to dive deep into race play as a fantasy and while I disagree with it to some degree I don’t want to kink shame. But please realize that some of us yes happen to hook up with other races bc we happened to find that guy attractive physically, emotionally etc and that it can be hurtful to me and the guys when it’s suggested as only about race play.

I’m sure some may consider me a hypocrite but just wanted to voice my opinion