So my wife (32F) and I (33M) have been married for 5 years. I've always had the hotwife fantasy with not only my wife, but with previous girlfriends as well. I'm sure this fantasy stemmed from having my first sexual experiences with very sexually experienced girlfriend while in high-school. I've never pushed it with my wife, I didn't even really mention it until about 3 years ago. But as time went on, more and more of it came out while in the bedroom. In the beginning, she was somewhat receptive and joined in, but after was very clear that nothing would every happen. Which is fine, just the playing out the fantasy during sex was more than enough. But time went on, and we started introducing toys into the mix, and kept diving deeper into the fantasy. A year ago, I ended up surprising her with a new toy, which she didn't like as it was a little big for her. We went and picked out another to replace it, and incorporated that into our sex life. But within the last couple of months, it's like something has changed. She is definitely more open about the hotwife fantasy, even joking about it out of the bedroom. About two weeks ago I came home from work and she told me that she was quite horny and brought out the toy that was too big and was trying that, all while playing out the fantasy of being with another guy. Of course I hear that and we end up back in the bedroom. Now we're talking about getting a toy that is modeled after a male pornstar for her. This was all unexpected but I just think over the years she is just becoming more receptive to maybe making it more than just a fantasy. Again, never pushing her, but letting her develop her own feelings towards it. I think we would both agree that it would be more of a threesome, as that's what all our role-playing with toys has been. But I guess we'll see from here if the fantasy becomes reality!