My wife(40F) and I(41M)are trying for our first experience. She’s been talking on Reddit to a ton of rando’s and found some she really likes. Even started making a “soft” stable with people that didn’t logistically match up now. She’s on what I think may be her last hurdle of body image(bbw). She is clear with potentials, and most are like when and where. Which makes her beam.

We don’t remember how we got into “hotwifing”. I’m a sex freak as it is, and my wife just needs a push, and assurance for anything to be good. And she may actually be freaked then Me! But as she searches for the first, we both don’t remember “a talk”. Or how got here, just that we both want more.

We both honestly have seen such crazy uptick of us communicating, date nights, and crazy sex thinking about it. We both feel it’s the magic of the last few months.

Just wanted to blurt it out. With some of the negative posts I see. We love where we are at, granted we haven’t gone thru the act yet, but I know my wife has a safe place to explore her self, and look forward to the next crazy step.

In her words most nights “This is crazy!” It is, I’m glad she’s on this trip with me!