Hi! First time writer, long time lurker! Me (38M) and my Gf (32F) have been fantasizing about her being with other men for about one year. She's always been the more hesitant one, and haven't been sure she wants to try it. But have been open-minded about the possibility.

About one month ago we tried swiping on tinder and found a good "candidate" He's living in a poly relationship so he's really looking for a more "romantic" relationship but is open to meeting up without that as a goal. We've been completed honest with him about what we want. (Someone she can meet by herself for awhile and then I'll occasionally will join in for a threesome).

Anyways, last Wednesday they met for the first time and it ended with a kiss. She confessed to it beeing much more hotter than she anticipated and I've probably never been more turned on in my life. The weekend ended in us having more and hotter sex than in a long while. Next date is in about two weeks and I'm finding myself thinking about it ALL the time. I think my gf is starting to become tired of my bringit it up all the time so just had to unwind here. Appreciate any thoughts and tips :)