We are just getting started in the lifestyle as a couple after having fantasized about it for a long time and have just a few experiences under our belt. This was driven by my (the M half) fantasy to share her and watch her with other guys, and we're both absolutely loving this aspect of the lifestyle so far!

But I, the male partner, have been with couples on my own prior to this relationship. She knows this is something that still turns me on, but isn't ready to actively watch me with another woman (we've talked about exploring this scenario as a couple-couple swinger group at some point). However, she has given me full permission to seek out other couples on my own whenever one of us travels for work alone (which I recently acted on for the first time and met a really sexy hotwife from Reddit with whom I had a great time!).

We both seem completely ok with this dynamic and are just curious how many others of you out there have a similar arrangement?