We are relatively new to the lifestyle, sorry if this sounds ridiculous. I’m just nervous. This weekend we are meeting up in a hotel room with a third/bull. Since we aren’t meeting ahead of time I’m looking for advice on how the very beginning would be preferred by third/bull. My husband will be watching but not joining in.

Should I be in lingerie waiting on the bed and husband opens the door, introduces himself and then I initiate? Or should I open the door and greet him? Any other suggestions?

We have met with a few before but the situation was different. Really want everyone to be comfortable and have a good time with the least amount of awkwardness or nervousness possible.