My wife (30) and myself (32) ended up having the talk today… and it went really well.

We’ve talked around this for years, and how I find her sexual past to be exciting and how much it turns me on. I’ve had explicit dreams about her hooking up with strangers twice in the last week. I’ve been honest with her both times that I’ve woken up super horny and jacked off at 5 in the morning both times.

I had one of those dreams last night. I told her, and told her that after jacking off, my perception of it didn’t change, and that I was very okay with her doing what she wanted to if the situation was right. We had a lot of conversation around what it would look like, and she wanted to know how much I would like to know. Basically, only one night stands, nobody we know, playing while out of town (we both travel for work). After all of the conversation, she told me that she thought it was exciting and that she thought she could do what we talked about.

Sooooo yeah, I’m excited, nervous, horny, etc.