Just wanted to say everyone here is amazing and super supportive of everyone looking for advice and sharing their stories. I wanted t ogive an update on us. The last year has been a huge change for us and it required us to take a little step back. So after I (40M) retired from the military, my wife (42F) finished up her post grad degree and changed careers, and our child moved off to college we finally feel ready to have her start looking again. I geared up to be ready for the endless onslaught of filtering though responses and weeding out the guys we don't want t deal with it seems I lucked out and picked a real good contender right off the bat. It is going so well that after a few days of chatting they are meeting up after she gets off work. Everything is on the table if she feels in the zone with him, however it will probably be just a quick meet for coffee and maybe some car play. I forgot how exciting it is to be just sitting back and waiting for something to happen. I'll post some updates as the night goes on. For everyone just starting or feeling the weight of regular life bearing down on you just remember to go through your journeys together. Regardless if the event goes bad, awkward, or not at all, if you go through it together and discuss your feelings it can work out for you. Deep down I'm hoping for a naughty picture and some details about her not holding back but I really just want her to feel like the sexy confident hotwife that she is again.