Charlie Sheen once famously said about prostitutes; "I don’t pay them for sex, I pay them to leave". I can certainly understand the philosophy here and how it could apply to our first Hotwife experience (which are slowly, but surely, getting closer to). My wife is stunningly beautiful and most men would beg, or even open their wallets, for the chance to be with her. But we are very aware (especially from some posts here) how the wrong choice of Bull could sour the experience or even make it risky. I struggle to believe those on here that claim their experiences with friends or work colleagues end, eventually, in anything else other than disaster and there is no way we will go down that path. If we do this it needs to be with someone we never see again (unless we want to) and will never try contact us - something which I am more than happy to pay to guarantee. I would very interested to hear others thoughts on this and especially an account from anyone who hired a male Giglio to make their fantasy a reality.