My girlfriend and I live in Minneapolis. We've been together for nearly 5 years, have tried a few threesomes, but now she has been intrigued by the lifestyle. From the sounds of it, this is something she wants to embrace heavily if it goes well for the first time. We've booked a 5 night stay in Cabo and 10 day trip to Europe, both in the next few months, where she's been talking about cucking me the entire time.. but talk is just talk until we do something.

She just booked a vacation for us in Chicago this weekend, Thursday through Sunday, to see what can happen.

She's not sure who or what she's looking for yet, or how to find someone. Should we use Tinder? Or 3fun?

Is anyone in the Chicago area or knows of any good bars or clubs to go to in or near the Loop to find a bull?

She's excited but not sure what to be looking or asking for, or even what to wear.

Thanks for your advice in advance.

Happy to share pictures if needed.