Hotwifing is a type of consensual non-monogamy in which a couple agrees to allow one partner to engage in sexual activities with others, while the other partner remains faithful. If you are interested in hotwifing and would like to discuss it with your partner, it's important to approach the subject in a respectful and non-confrontational manner.

Here are a few steps you can take:

1. Start by discussing your feelings and desires. Be honest and open about why you're interested in hotwifing, and explain that you would like to explore this type of consensual non-monogamy with them.

2. Provide resources and information about hotwifing to your partner. There are many books, websites, and forums that can provide more information about this lifestyle and how it works.

3. Take time to listen to your partner's thoughts and feelings. They may have concerns or reservations, and it's important to address them and work through them together.

4. Emphasize that consent and communication are key in hotwifing. Make sure both you and your partner are comfortable with the idea and willing to discuss and set boundaries.

5. Be respectful and understanding if your partner is not interested in this type of lifestyle, it's important to respect each other's feelings, decision and preferences.

Keep in mind that not everyone may be open to the idea of hotwifing, so it's important to have open and honest communication with your partner throughout this conversation, and to be respectful of their feelings and boundaries