My wife is fully open to the idea as a fantasy only at this point and has been for a while but I keep getting signs I can’t help but think indicate she may be interested in taking this beyond fantasy. Last night was one.

We’re a busy couple with kids so she doesn’t get to go out with her girl friends much like she used to before we got married. Last night she finally got a chance and I made sure to take all the kids out of the house several hours before she had to leave so she could have time and space to get ready and feel sexy. I made w sure while she was out to not bother her with text messages - but just give her space to have fun on her terms.

After she got home I asked how the night went. As she was detailing the affairs of the night she talks about the chef at the restaurant they went to. He is good friends with one of her GFs so he came out to the table to talk to them a couple times. Twice in talking about the night and the dinner she mentioned “he was pretty handsome” without me ever even asking about him. After the first time she mentioned it - I said “oh yeah? So you maybe it would be fun to fuck him???” and she replies “no…he’s married so not my thing”—but keeps talking about him as she talks about the night and mentions again how he was pretty handsome.

So we finish talking and head up to bed for some post night out fucking. As we’re fooling around he comes up again and it dawns on me - how did she know he was married - so I ask her. She l gets super coy and nervous and quickly admits “I looked for a ring.” I get instantly rock hard and we have incredible sex.

So am I projecting too much of my fantasy onto her or is the fact that she took the initiative on her own to look for a ring to see if this guy was “available” a good sign that she might be toying with the idea of taking this beyond fantasy at some point? I would love to hear a woman’s perspective on this.