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I'm 23M Punjabi and looking for intimate cuddling without sex and without making out. I don't want a relationship right now
My definition of intimate cuddling would be cuddling that involves:
close body to body contact (tight hugs)
caressing each other
skin to skin contact
kissing on places except lips or genitals
having a conversation and getting to know each other
I'm also a very chilled out person and encourage clear communication. We can discuss boundaries everytime we meet and anytime while we are cuddling. Ideally we get to know each as friends and we can just cuddle whenever we feel like we need to.
We also have to establish a rule where if one of us does not want to continue doing this, we have the right to discontinue without drama. I will never make you feel bad about wanting to end this agreement if you want to, and I won't cause any drama.
As for why I don't want to makeout or have sex; for having sex I need to really trust the person, but I also don't want to get my body count up sooo I don't know if I'm willing to have sex, and as for making out, it's a very intimate action for me and I strongly believe I should only do that with a girlfriend
Summary: Looking for intimate cuddling, no pressure to talk to each other, no making out, no sex
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