I (19F) recently went to a local festival in the town I live in (middle of nowhere in Norway). After the show, I went to get some merch from the opening band (in their early 20s). I struck up a conversation with them, and the drummer invited me to hang out with them backstage. We goofed around and had a few drinks.

When the band was heading out, the drummer (who I'd been talking to and though was pretty cute) asked if we should go to my place. Although it was out of character for me, I said sure and took him home. We hung out, talked about music, kissed a little, and cuddled.

He ended up spending the night. We both were turned on by each other, but nothing really sexual happened. It was actually one of the nicest nights I've had. He was surprisingly gentle and just sort of wanted snuggles. It could have been because I haven't had cuddles in almost a year, but I definitely felt butterflies.

He headed out in the morning. When he did, he gave me a hug and asked for my instagram. I kind of felt sad when he left, and I might have gotten a bit of a crush. I texted him to say thank you for the backstage hangout and for the nice night. He basically said it was fun and nice. I really want to keep talking to him, he's a pretty cool guy and I'd like to know him better. I don't know if he just wants to move on from it, since he hasn't started a conversation or anything. I'm also wondering if the whole thing was the adrenaline from the show and the alcohol talking, and not so much him.