Hi, I am 30, Male who believes in love through submission. One of the biggest challenges I have had is finding a women who wants a Female Led Relationship.

Last year in June, I started to change where I first lost interest in all hobbies and came into this state of confusion. But now that I have passed that phase I noticed that the type of relationship that I yearn for is a Female Led Relationship. Also, I have lost interest in porn and gain no satisfaction from it, to be honest I actually feel bored watching it.

In terms of hobbies, reading has become a hobby I didn't have before and after work and I am trying different things to see what peeks my new interest. I ask myself what can I do to improve and become better at some aspect in life and engage in running or other activity that stimulates the body or mind.

I feel that a Female Led Relationship is ideal I want to serve a women I love, cherish and adore. I hate raising my voice or arguing in a relationship and am patient when I get scolded.

My dream FLR life is where I have someone who will both love me and enjoy being in control of the relationship and life and who can make rules and who's decision will always be the final one where I can only give suggestions. I love service submission, doing acts of kindness such as making tea, house chores and other task all while locked in chastity of my future partner's favorite color and to be punished if I really annoy unintentionally or forget to do something I was ordered to do. Of course if chastity is something you don't like using on me, then fine as your decisions will always be above mine,

More to Chastity: I have always felt that when I find a dominant women to marry I should be locked away in chastity and only unlocked when I can have sex with my spouse or for supervised masturbation and have a collection of cages in different colors and some steel ones as well. I have never been locked in one but hopefully someday that dream will come true.

In the past I have been in a non-sexual FLR and from experience at first I tend to feel pressure and a bit of reluctance but once I do what I was ordered, I feel happy the second time I am order to do a new task. For example, I was ordered to wake up early and book tickets as the counter opens early and on the first day, I dragged myself there unhappy, but the second day, I did with a smile and was happy to serve and do as I was told.

So, if there are areas that I am lacking in, I can be trained to become the ultimate submissive husband that is your hearts desire which applies not only to life, but to kinks as well.

When it comes to loyalty I am someone who is very loyal in a relationship, I lose interest in other girls and even if a scantly dressed or naked beautiful young women was around, I just don't feel or have any interest because I my strong sense of loyalty overtakes my emotions my the person I am loyal to becomes the most beautiful person in my eyes.

Hard limits: I am not certain at this point in time as something I may not be okay with now will become something I will be willing to agree to in the future; I am sure we can discuss them and see what we can agree on.

The only area where I prefer to not be controlled in is work clothing such as the suit, tie, shoes and stationary I use. I tend to be very particular when it comes to the black leather wallet, belt, shoes and even the pens I use on a daily basis.

I always envision myself as someone in the future who will come home and immediately strip naked then either remain naked or wear cloths that my future dominant spouse will prefer.

So, if you want to be friends first and discuss FLR as well as have a normal conversation so that we can get to know each other better, then send me a message, this way when we know each other for sometime and have set the foundation of how the FLR should be, getting into it will be much easier.