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I have a regular who keeps offering to take me shopping. The last time I asked him to elaborate on the specifics and he said that we would go to Nordstrom or Victoria Secrets (presumably to purchase lingerie for his own consumption 🙄) where I could spend my hourly FBSM rate shopping and then back to my incall for FBSM (this is what I normally see him for). I explained to him that while I appreciate gifts, I do not consider them compensation for my time (got that line from you awesome ladies here. Thx!).
That was a few months ago. Now he wants to take me shopping again. He's offering to pay for a room near the mall and give me a "credit" of about $100 over my hourly FS rate. I'm thinking he wants to go back for possibly FS this time and I don't know what "credit" means. I texted him to clarify and he called my phone. I wasn't in the mood to chat(he can be draining).
On one hand, I want to stick to my guns about paying for my time. I do this to make money and I can't pay my bills with this "credit". On the other hand, a shopping trip for that amount wouldn't suck. Especially if I have nothing else to do that day.
What are your thoughts?
Edited for more clarification.
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