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Hello all. There are a few things about my services that make me feel worth my pricing. Some of it is physical, some has to do with the experience I provide emotionally. Of course I keep myself up physically, of course I am educated, well spoken, ect. Anyone can have those things, a million women have those things. I'm talking about the things that you feel take you to another level.
A few distinct things that make me feel worth it that I don't think people would think of when asked this question.
1st: I do not begrudge a client a few dollars here or there for something like a drink when they've paid me 5 figures for overnights or traveling together. Most of my clients would never think to let me pay for anything of my own, but occasionally I have taken all of their cash and will buy my own drink at a bar, or even both of our drinks if I'm at concession at the ice rink or something. A t-shirt at a concert, a small trinket at a night market, ect.
2nd: Gifts. I get them from my clients, and my clients get some small things from me. The several hundred dollars I spend per year on gifts for clients has been returned to me more than 10x over.
3rd: Headspace. While with a client (particularly a GFE client) I am not "at work" I AM this client's girlfriend or wife for the duration of our time together. An idealized version of one, but still. I imagine that I'm trying to convince an invisible director that I love and want this man, woman, or couple.
These are a few of the things that make me feel worth my high end rates. What makes you feel worth it?
I'm not asking for advice on confidence. I was more asking what about you makes YOU know that you are worth it. It was more of an exercise in self and group reflection on what it means to provide a luxury service.
I'm fully worth my pricing and have no issues asking for it, I was just reflecting on a few of the reasons why I feel that way.
I didn't mean it in a judgemental way. I meant it in a confidence way. I know providers who charge less than I do have a variety of reasons, which is why I posed this question on a LUXURY companion sub.
Every provider SHOULD charge what they're worth, I'm asking people to reflect on what about them helps them to know their worth.
I once told a friend at the brothel : you were always a $----/ hour companion, these clients have just been getting a HELL of a discount. She didn't know her worth, she didn't think men would pay her what she asked, when she quit drinking and subsequently began to look healthier and prettier she had the confidence to charge what she had always been worth.
I'm just asking what about you makes you feel your worth. It's a thought exercise and isn't at all meant to be judgemental.
I didn't post any sources so... Are you drunk or just really stupid?
Which you yourself said wasn't relevant as you are in the UK, it also has nothing to do with not dying of COVID-19 thanks to a vaccine. So again. Your lane... It's out of this sub and away from all human contact because you are an insufferable tool.
Also, not the full video. Which you would know if you actually bothered to look at any real news. Let's switch places. You come die in the U.S with all of the other fucking idiots, and I'll have a nice UK vacation.
Real clear politics isn't a valid source and your link to the UK health ministry disputed what you said. So... Go die of COVID already I guess.
Except that it doesn't say that. I'm not really sure how 6 deaths of vaccinated people due to Delta 21 days after their first vaccine dose is more than the 72 deaths of the unvaccinated. Also, this isn't the sub for that. You're clearly not a high end anything, let alone an escort.
I guess we're just going to have to disagree on the conceptual basis of my question. It's pretty clear that you're taking it in a direction I neither intended nor directly said. It seems you are determined to make this a question about what people are worth, rather than about what services are worth. This conversation with you has already taken up 15 minutes of my time, which would normally net me $400, since I don't have cash in my hands for further interaction, I'm not going to engage beyond what I have already. My time is worth more.
Enjoy your life and be prosperous.
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I'm noticing the common theme that we're all super busy outside of work and just can't be bothered with more bookings.
I think that part of luxury is in the aloofness of a brand that doesn't appear to need YOU the consumer. Almost like luxury existing in the universe that clients feel privileged to tap into rather than luxury being something that chases their money.
Luxury almost... Doesn't have time for you, and that makes it more appealing.