I was laying in bed with a client, pillow talking and he told me that he just got out of a relationship and was telling me about how it ended, and afterward, he was like tell me something personal and I said ask me a question. He had none so I kinda just studdered and was like well I was in an on and off relationship for a while with someone who was kinda crazy and probably a sociopath.... uh definitely not the answer he wanted but I didn't know what to say and kinda ruined the good girl private school image I play.

Any suggestions for preplanned stories which make clients feel **special** and intimate without ruining anything. I have others like talking about family vacations or my siblings or bitching about rich kids in a way that seems cute and endearing.