y’all I have noticed an uptick in providers posting date pics on the TL with their whole ass client out there for the world to see ?

I thought it was only the US girlies doing it with their long term SDs but alas I saw an Australian SP do it too the other day

It weirds me out sooo much.

No hate towards SPs who do it but it’s like, my TL is supposed to be full of travel, beautiful women and bags, seeing a man on the feed feels like an invasion of my vision 😂😂😂

And i’m not talking about a male hand in shot, or a dinner pic when you can see 1/64th of a man’s chest, but whole body intended pics together

but I don’t just want to gossip (although where else can I talk about this highly niche occurrence)

From an image/marketing perspective I think it’s not a wise move.

I’m assuming the clients being posted are whales. Maybe provide much of the income. They tend to be possessive (ime) and probably WANT the SP all to themselves and insist to be posted

However future clients will be put off, imo.

Whales fall in love and disappear, leaving you alone and needing to rebuild your client base you lowkey alienated because he took up all your time.

It doesn’t matter if you see 1 client a month or 100, clients don’t want to view you with another man. Of course they know what you do but they don’t want to be thinking about another man when they’re with you unless they’re a cuck.

It ESPECIALLY puts off future/current whales or mini whales. Seeing that a SP is posting someone and not you, especially if you’ve paid for a few big dates or gifts…. instant boner loss.

again, this is just my opinion. I’d actually love to hear differing thoughts or experiences, I’m so curious.