So I’m 36 m been dealing with Hidradenitis since I was 12 it sucks lol. But like the title says I’m tired of having to explain myself to my “partners” before doing the deed I’m already self conscious enough with my body being a chubby guy now I have to explain myself while her look of disgust takes over her face. I get it it’s not a pretty site I hate looking at my scars too but it’s part of my life I can’t just make them disappear. I just wish I could find that partner that’s sees me for me and not my scars or bumps it’s already bad enough dealing with the physical pain now let’s just add the psychological pain and stress to it too. Sorry just had to rant for a bit smh.