I’m 29M from Ontario, Canada. White, 6’3”, muscular build, dark features, thick head of hair, full beard, good job… safe to say I had a lot going for me.

Diagnosed with GHSV-2 in June 2024. I’ve had my ups and downs, and right now I’m having a down. I’m angry. Like furious. I just wanna snap. It’s mental torture. I have days where I’m fine and I’m telling other people on here that they’re gonna be fine too, but nah, not tonight. I’m losing my shit. It’s a fucking joke that nobody gives a fuck about us. I’ve had 2 successful disclosures since my diagnosis, and I’ve had sex 3 times since. But, I’ve worn a condom every time, and I can’t even get in the mood, especially when the girl knows. I can tell she’s not fully in the mood either. The only way it’s possible to enjoy sex is to not disclose and pretend like it’s not there, which I’m obviously not gonna do. There’s just no way to win with this shit man. FML.