I 22/F am starting the process of moving in with my M/29 bf. I wasn’t necessarily snooping, I did that the first time he left me alone in his house. I wanted to see what I was getting into. Anyway, I was looking around trying to plan where I was going to put my things/ how I wanted to move in. Of course I’m making him apart of the conversation before I just start moving things around. He was at work and I started moving some stuff into his closet. I opened a drawer and under a single pair of jeans there it was! I immediately started nervous laughing because this man told me he doesn’t masturbate, and also has given me strange looks when I mention I’ve used toys on myself before. As someone who a glutton for pleasure, extremely sex positive, and hedonistic. How do I bring it up? Should I bring it up? Should I wait until we’re on the topic of conversation of sex? What kind of conversation should I start? Should it be about toys? Masturbation? What makes each other feel the most pleasure? I want to talk to him about because I’m curious why he has it but says he doesn’t really masturbate except for being an exceptionally horny individual. I’m not mad at all, just curious.

TLDR: moving in with my bf and found his fleshlight while he was at work putting some of my stuff away. He says he doesn’t masturbate. Should I ask him why he has it or leave well enough alone?