I have some of the weirdest rapport after I had weird thoughts (thinking about sharting on Metformin, needing to fix the shower at my place, thinking about the career trajectory of a position I am applying for), and I randomly have women come up to me or I just have normal niceties and it seems like the conversation goes well. But if I try to build rapport it does not seem to go anywhere? I mean just to talk, not even dating wise. I have talked with a female friend at job one and get along with her, but we usually talk tech, investing, starting businesses, etc. .

Second part, what should I talked about? With guys, I can talk crypto, investing, social sciencey stuff, finance, travel, gaming (I don't do that as much any more), sports, etc., but with women it is more sterile stuff (what do you do for fun, etc.). People say treat them like anyone else, but it feels easier to talk about stuff with guys than women. Is there a way to do this without being boring?