Welcome one and all to the Looking for Partners (L4P/LFP) Megathread.

The purpose of this Megathread, as if it isn't already known, is to help others find partners or friends to play with, as well as be lewd with. These threads are reset every five to six months. As you are giving out personal information, be sure you don't say anything that could lead you into a bad situation.

❗❗REMEMBER❗❗: There are bad people out there.

Only share personal information with people you know well and think before spending any money on them. We are not held responsible for your naivety...

To make it short: Be careful.

You can follow which ever format you wish when it comes to advertising yourself, but it's recommended you follow the format below as it makes your post more appealing to look at, and gives off a better impression. Basically, formatting matters. Nobody wants someone who builds a wall of messy text over a neat organized easy to read posts.

Edit the format to your liking, include what you like and take out what you do not like.

This is a recommended guideline not a rulebook.

**Primary Role:** Healer, Healslut, Healbrat, Healdom, Tank, Tanksub, Tankbrat, Tankdom, DPS, DPSsub, DPSbrat, DPSDom, or Switch. This is what you prefer first or what you are the majority of the time.

**Secondary Role:** If any. Healer, Healslut, Healbrat, Healdom, Tank, Tanksub, Tankbrat, Tankdom, DPS, DPSsub, DPSbrat, DPSDom, or Switch. This is what you prefer second or what you are some of the time.

**Sex:** This is your actual sex, not your gender. There is absolutely nothing stopping you from changing this to gender if you wish.

**Sexual Orientation:** Heterosexual, Bisexual, Homosexual, etc.

**Age:** Your real physical age. No rounding up or rounding down.

**Known Languages:** What is your native tongue and what other languages do you speak, if any? This will help people find others that speak languages they're more comfortable with or are looking to learn themselves.

**Games Played:** Games you happen to play often that you can play with others or feel you could involve other people in.

**System:** Your gaming system, if you happen to use a gaming console or a PC, make sure to let others know.

**Timezone:** Your timezone will let people know of your availability as well as the general idea of where you live without breaching your privacy. 

**Opening Message:**

*This will be your opening message. Be sure to fill this section with as much information as you like, really try to reel people in. Who are you? What do you want? Are you new? Are you experienced? Pet-peeves? Etc. A premade opening message has been created to give a proper example: Hey there! I'm new to this subreddit and concept but i'd love for someone to teach me the ropes. I'd like to hang out with a group of Doms with their subby sluts on the side, maybe get to boasting on which of our sluts' are the best. I play to have fun and would love to have a cute little healer to protect. I have a really nice mic and I'm on quite often, but keep in mind: I'm not really the abusive rough type, so you might wanna look for someone else if that's what you want!*

There's also Discord servers you may join that allows you to find people easily to play with, hang out with, and maybe even get to know a little better. There's varying sizes of users in each server, so pick which one fits best.

You can find them all here!

Tools!

Along with the helpful advice above, there are tools you may use in order to give off a better impression of yourself and what you may want in others. The links below will help you accomplish this.

• BDSM Test

What is it?

BDSM Test is what you would expect: a site for showing your BDSM qualities; what you're into without diving too much into your fetishes. If you are look for a more vague way to show your interests than the other two options below, this would be your go to. It's quite limited and it is a survey, so it's bound to get some things wrong.

• F-List

What is it?

F-List is a site made by furries that functions very well as a place to show off what your fetishes and kinks are as well as what you dislike. It's a great tool with quite the expansive list of fetishes and kinks. Even if you don't share your fetishes, it's good to be organized with them, not to mention it removes the "Are you okay with X?" conversations that tend to happen.

• KinkList

What is it?

Kinklist is a site that allows you to show off what your fetishes and kinks are as well as what you dislike. While F-List is purely restricted to the site, Kinklist exports out to an image that can be shared wherever you like. The drawback is that it's quite lacking in overall fetishes and kinks, however, being open-source, you can fix this by putting the missing kinks and fetishes yourself.

• A Basic Guide to HealSluts and BDSM

What is it?

This is a guide that should help the newer users into healsluts as a whole. Both figuratively and very literally. It's a must read and will generally help you get a better idea of what to do, how to do it, and what not to do. It's highly recommended you read this before even posting.

Last but not least:

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