Aloha everyone,

There comes the time in a single chat with a new couple that it’s time to start planning the first meeting. Partner and I have both decided we don’t really want to go and meet for dinner, and not being drinkers. We find the idea of hanging out in a bar to be pretty unappealing. We also love the idea that everything clicks that we just all head to the bedroom.

We don’t wanna fuck a ton of people, but we also don’t wanna get stuck into a dating scenario as we don’t want to date anybody aside from ourselves.

In the past, I’ve invited people over there was conversation or we watch some fun porn, and I got everybody in the mood, but that is not always beneficial because you may find yourself with jerks in the room.

How do you guys like to handle this scenario? Any special place you like to meet? Would love to hear from your experience folks on Oahu, especially