Got my first PM a couple years ago and loved it. The 5 or 6 massages I got after that I tried to get it again but was only successful 2 times. I get it. It’s definitely more intimate than just jerking a cock and who wants to stick their fingers in a stranger’s asshole? But then I had an idea to hopefully bolster my success rate.

Once we’re post-flip and we’ve made the transition into HE territory, I start rubbing around the outside my asshole with my fingers to let her know that it’s something I like. Almost all of them will follow suit on that. Getting them to enter has always been the deal-breaker, until now. Once she’s fully rubbing it, I politely ask her to grab my pants for me. Once she retrieves them, I produce a small vibrator that I had in my pocket. I hold it up in front of her, point to my ass and then hand it to her. There’s usually some kind of quick confirmation from her, making sure she understood me right, which I appreciate. Once we’re clear on what’s about to happen. I roll over and put my ass in the air while she applies some oil to the region and proceeds to give me an amazing vibrating PM/HE combo.

I’ve tried this my last 3 visits with 3 different girls at 3 different spas and it’s worked every time. One of the girls requested a little more money for this service which I was happy to oblige. The other two just went for it like it wasn’t a big deal. One of them (an older lady) acted like she was into it, slapping my ass and telling me how naughty I was.

I think I still prefer the finger so I might go back to asking for that first and then having the vibrator on hand as a backup.